i watched perks of being a wallflower, i can relate alot to charly, i guess in the way that everyone does leave, being a jhd child or an adult with hd or cancer or random things happening, it can be mental they can just zone away from you or always be too busy for you it always seems like the only way people become truly Alive is when somebody they love truly Dies.. i’m not killing myself for that and hopefully never killing myself over it like the boy in the movie having so many issues, but people who are grieving more then ever probably know the same, wake up and realize this, that anything can happen at anytime and we never know when or what and it sucks but it’s true